Willoughby L. Sharp

In Loving Memory of Willoughby Lee Sharp

On May 15th, 1939, Willoughby Lee Sharp, affectionately known as Cedric, was born to Ella May Griffin and Edward Sharp. Willoughby, who transitioned from this life on November 22nd, 2023, led a life marked by resilience, service, and love.

Willoughby's journey was marked by determination and accomplishment. A proud high school graduate, he became an esteemed Army veteran, serving honorably in the 82nd Airborne Division. Following his military service, Willoughby dedicated more than two decades of his life to the United SteelWorkers of America, where he became a trailblazer as the first and only black man to hold the
position of Labor Arbitrator. His work spanned the globe, negotiating labor contracts that touched the lives of countless individuals. In 2004, he retired, leaving behind a legacy of fairness and justice.

Willoughby, born in Virginia and raised in New York, returned to his roots, creating a warm home adorned with pictures of cherished family and friends—a testament to his disciplined nature and shrewd business sense. A man of deep faith, he regularly attended church, and his home was a delightful haven, offering an abundance of treats, reflecting his thoughtful and caring nature.
A devoted reader, Willoughby stayed informed on global events and joyfully witnessed significant strides in civil rights. Willoughby found profound joy in seeing the achievements of the black community, the historic moment of the first black president, and sincerely appreciated the ideals of Martin Luther King Jr. His unwavering commitment to equality and justice left an indelible mark on the hearts of those who knew him.

Willoughby's passion for golf was undeniable, earning him several first-place victories in prestigious tournaments, including the Norfolk State Tennis Golf Tournament Championship, the Dick Price Hunton YMCA Golf Classic in 2007, and the 9th Annual Fall Golf Classic and GW Carver Class of '59 Classic in 2012.

Above all, Willoughby was a beacon of love and wisdom for his family. His daughters, Andrea Everett-Johnson and Terri Parham, and granddaughters Janel Stevenson (Princess) and Jasmine Parham were the cherished treasures of his heart. Willoughby's legacy extends to many beloved friends and family members touched by his unwavering support and care. Preceding him in death,
his brother Edward Sharp Jr. remains in loving memory. He also leaves behind a surviving brother, Kevin Dyer, residing in NY, who will continue to hold his memory close.

Willoughby lived by a simple yet profound motto: "Take care of business." He demonstrated the right way to live, encouraging others to strive for better and exemplifying black excellence. He leaves behind a world forever touched by his love, dignity, and the enduring impact of a life well lived.

 A celebration of life will be held 11 a.m. Thursday, December 7, 2023 at New Weeping Mary Missionary Baptist Church, 1104 Fentress Road, Chesapeake, Virginia. He will be laid to rest 10 a.m. on Friday, December 8, 2023 at Albert G. Horton Memorial Veterans Cemetery. Professional services with dignity have been  entrusted to Crocker Funeral Home, Inc.